The Mandarin Oriental Hotel

Welcome Party

Wave Hill Botanical Garden

Wedding Day

Fall

Our Wedding

Ashlyn and Ben met through Hinge in late 2020 — and, apparently, the algorithm knew what it was doing, as they matched as each other’s “Most Compatible.”-Their first date was at Jackdaw in the East Village, where they sat outside in December due to COVID-19 restrictions. The restaurant had different hours than what was posted online, and was actually closing within 45 minutes of their arrival — a memorable start to a relationship.-Within two months of dating, Ashlyn adopted a cat, Toast, despite Ben being allergic (and despite Ashlyn soon realizing she technically is too, even though she grew up with cats). In 2024, they adopted their sheltie puppy, Riley, who they are convinced is the world’s smallest Sheltie. They even looked into the Guinness World Records for proof — though the record book doesn’t record this (they looked into it…twice).-Ashlyn brought her love of running into the relationship, including running the NYC Marathon in 2023. Ben introduced her to his love of winter sports — specifically skiing. She’s still working on it, but she’s getting there.-On November 9, 2024, Ben proposed in Central Park — after luring Ashlyn there by saying they were taking Riley for a walk. They were late to their own engagement because Ashlyn insisted on stopping for a chicken sandwich (because why not wander on a lovely Saturday?). All their friends and family were waiting at a bar to celebrate afterward — just like Ashlyn wanted.-They’re so excited to celebrate with everyone at the wedding this October!

  Where It Started

The Backstory

Engagement Photos

Harry Moreland 

Taylor Schofield

Shelby has been Ashlyn’s best friend since they met in Kindergarten speech class, sharing nearly 25 years of memories from chaotic road trips to countless concerts!

Shelby LeVasseur

Megan is the bride’s “college friend met after college,” and somehow they’ve packed so many adventures into just a few years—mostly thanks to Megan always being up for (and planning) the trip.

Megan Gauer

Jules has been Ashlyn’s friend since their middle school bus days, carrying that bond through UConn, late‑night projects, and years of adventures.

Jules Chen

Meghan has been Ashlyn’s friend since their middle school track and cross‑country days, sharing years of race weekends, inside jokes, and memories.

Meghan Foote

Lindsay has been Ashlyn's built‑in best friend from the start, sharing everything from childhood pool days and Christmas shenanigans, as cousins who grew up together!

Lindsay Coxhead

Ashlyn & Jackie met as work friends and just six months later, were crossing the country together on a Canada trip—our first clue we were in it for the long haul!

Jackie Jessop

Wedding Party

Welcome PartyFor the welcome party, we invite guests to wear suit and tie or a jacket for men, and dresses or dressy separates for women. WeddingPlease join us in formal attire.For men: a dark suit or tuxedo with dress shoes.For ladies: floor-length gowns or cocktail-length dresses.The ceremony and reception will be primarily outdoors on October 3, 2026, so consider breathable fabrics and a light wrap for evening breezes.

Dress Code

Q + A

Welcome to New York City everyone, we are so glad you'll be able to celebrate our wedding with us! We have arranged two hotel block options.

Check In: October 2, 2026Check Out: October 4, 2026Note: Please book this location by September 2

Loews Regency New York

Check In: October 2, 2026Check Out: October 4, 2026Note: Please book this location by August 16

Courtyard by Marriott New York Manhattan/Midtown East

Lodging

Shuttle ServiceWe’ll have buses departing from the Courtyard by Marriott New York Manhattan/Midtown East at 5:00 PM and returning from Wave Hill at 12:00 AM. Shuttles will not be leaving the Loews Regency; please walk to the Courtyard if you staying at the Loews for pickup. Everyone is welcome to use the shuttles, whether or not you’re staying at one of the hotels! If you’re a NYC local, we encourage you to take one of the buses for an easy ride to and from the venue.Public TransportationFor those coming from the other boroughs, we recommend taking the shuttle from the hotel, otherwise the ride to Wave Hill can be quite long. However, if you’re taking public transportation, there are a few options to get to the venue:Subway: Take the 1 train to 231st Street or 242nd Street. From there, you can take an Uber or walk to the venue. We don’t recommend, as it’s a local train and the ride from Manhattan can be quite long.Metro-North: Take the Hudson Line to Riverdale Station, then walk about 15 minutes uphill or take an Uber.ParkingFor those driving, on-site parking is available at Wave Hill, with approximately 30 parking spaces reserved for our guests. There should be plenty of room for everyone who plans to drive!

Getting There

Central Park

The Metropolitan Museum of Art

Statue of Liberty

The Museum of Modern Art

Lincoln Center for the Performing Arts

United Nations Headquarters

SUMMIT One Vanderbilt

Intrepid Museum

Carnegie Hall

Tiffany & Co. - The Landmark

Things to Do

Registry

We are absolutely thrilled to welcome you to our wedding weekend!The celebrations kick off on Friday with a Welcome Party at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel. It will be an opportunity to share time together with the people who are most important in our lives, and we will offer a toast to the weekend ahead.On Saturday, the Wedding and Reception will take place at Wave Hill where we will welcome everyone at 6:00PM on the banks of the Hudson River where you will have a lovely sunset view of the historic George Washington Bridge.For those of you planning to travel to Wave Hill from the Marriott Courtyard, the coach buses will arrive at the hotel at 5:00PM and depart shortly thereafter. At the conclusion of the evening, buses will depart Wave Hill around midnight with drop off at the Courtyard. If you wish to leave before that time, Uber is available.We can’t wait to see you!Ashlyn and BenMandarin Oriental Hotel80 Columbus CircleEntrance on 60th StreetWave Hill4900 Independence AvenueFor urgent questions on SaturdayText or call:Harry Moreland (404) 395-2894orShelby LeVasseur (203) 710-9294

Ben & Ashlyn

Ben & Ashlyn

Itinerary